Tuesday, January 22, 2008

Velentine Note

Velentine Note

This poem of Smitha V was published in Women's Era last year, Now on the occassion of Valentine's day, I bring it forth yet again

I looked for someone
Not to share my dreams
But to create new ones
And make them true

I looked for someone
Not to fulfill my life
But to make it that one
Which I never dreamt of

I looked for someone
Not to back my talents
But to find new ones
Which I wasn't aware of

I looked for someone
Not to share my life
But to create a new one
On the ashes of two seperate ones

I looked for someone
Not knowing he was with me
I looked for YOU
Outside YOU

I looked for someone
Not knowing that I was
Looking for YOU
Not knowing that only to you
Could I say"I LOVE YOU"

From Smitha V

Monday, January 21, 2008

Tips That May Help ANY Guy!

Tips that may help ANY guy by Maria

Alrite boys! You need help? Here's a few tips to get you through some decision from a girl who knows what she's talking about!

1-Don't lead her on if you're not interested!! -this can easily lead to some girl that you may not even like falling for you head over heals (not all girls know exactly what they want from a guy most of them are more confused than you are!) These are things like telling them they look good or hot or whatever you say, or things just like touching her when you guys talk not ***ual or anything but just like touching her hand or her leg or something like that my best friend is a little touchy-feely like that and that on top of he's completely nice, and not that bad looking, i know it has made me fall for him a couple times even if he doesnt feel the same. Don't lead her on.

2-Don't go into a relationship unless you are ready for what lies ahead-as in don't ask a girl out or on a date her if you are not sure if you even like her or want to yet,(espesially if there is any other girl in the picture -such as that girl you've had a crush on for the past 5 years, an old girlfriend you're not completely over etc.! etc.!) this will save the girls, and you a lot of hurt feelings in the future

3-As stupid as this may sound it could do wonders for someone oblivious enough not to realize this! if a girl says she's fat DON'T agree with her!!!-it's not just agreeing with her, it's anything else that might make her SUSPECT that you may think it too (even if you don't) things such as figeting when you answer, or not answering at all, or anything else like that! Take it from a girl. Girls like to be complimented (not to the point where it's over done though, where it becomes all you say to her) if a girl feels pretty around you it will make her more confident in herself and more likely to be herself than if she feels put down. This goes for anything having to do with how the girl says she looks. I know for sure that it definately got me out of the mood when my boyfriend grabbed my waist and i jokingly told him "Don't touch my fat" and he responded with "It's not fat it's just 'extra skin' " yeah.... not the most charming thing to say to a girl

4-As much as you can stay away from ex-girlfriend's best friends-there are exceptions to this rule though. If your ex is from maybe a year or 2 ago then it's okay. Make sure you know that your ex is completely over you before asking out her best friend because that can definately cause many fights between the girl and her friend, or even you and your ex, or you and the girl you're dating.

5-When dating a girl surpise her :)-Girls always like surprises (even if they say they don't all girls love the feeling of being thought about) if you bring a girl flowers or even just a little present, candy, anything, she's bound to like it just because it means you care. It can be overdone very easily though. Don't bring something EVERY single time you see her, it gets old, it's becomes not special anymore. But also remember some of the sweetest things are the little things, maybe a kiss when she's not entirely expecting it, or maybe a little inside joke, such as if you have a joke about M&M's or something, who knows what! get her a bag of them or something like that and maybe attach a "remember when" homemade card on it (doesnt have to be fancy or have pictures or anything like that on it, just a little note) and write the memory inside it. it will let her know you were thinking of her

6-As much as you're told this, I want to tell you again BE YOURSELF!!!!-as a girl who has gone through it. NO GIRL wants to fall for some guy you make yourself up to be then halfway through your relationship find out you are nothing like the person you made yourself up to be. In other words as much as you like the girl she will like you better for you if you tell her the story of who you are straight the first time she hears it.

7-And last but not least for now, is the sweetest things come from you're heart, not on you're mind-To make a girl really fall for you don't feed her lines, like "Baby i think of you day and night." Yes, you may, but it's too outplayed every girl has heard it once before, find a way to tell her how you feel in YOUR own special way, not some way that you see in every movie book magazine, it will mean 10 times more to the girl and you if you show her in a way that she knows is true.Good Luck Boys... I hope it helped at least a little

27 Ways To Make A Girl Smile...try it!

27 ways to make a girl smile . . . . . by sasha

27 ways to make a girl smile . . . . .
*1 . Tell her she is beautiful, not hott, fine or ***y.
*2 . Hold her hand at any moment even if it just for a second.
*3 . Kiss her on the forehead.
*4 . Leave her voice messages to wake up to.
*5 . Always tell her you love her at any and all times.
*6 . When she is upset hold her tight and tell her how much she means to you.
*7 . Recognize the small things . . . they usually mean the most.
*8 . Sing to her no matter how horrible your voice is.
*9 . Pick her over all the other girls you hang out with.
*10 . Write her notes. {she loves them}
*11 . Introduce her to family and friends as your girlfriend.
*12 . Play with her hair.
*13 . Pick her up, tickle her and play-wrestle with her.
*14 . Sit in the park and just talk to her.
*15 . Tell her funny jokes, tell her stupid jokes, just tell her jokes.
*16 . Throw pebbles at her window in the middle of the night just because you missed her.
*17 . Let her fall asleep in your arms.
*18. Carve your names into a Tree.
*19 . If she's mad at you, kiss her.
*20 . Give her piggyback rides.
*21 . Bring her Flowers just because.
*22 . Treat her the same around your friends as you do when your alone.
*23 . Look her in the eyes and smile.
*24 . Let her take as many pictures of you as she wants.
*25 . Slow dance with her, even if there isn't any music playing.
*26 . Kiss her in the rain.
*27 . If your in love with her . . . Tell herNow.